Men are presented as non-shy, sexual beasts that are up for anything. Unfortunately for a girl like me, they really aren’t like that. Most men I encounter are just as shy and bashful as women, if moreso. Most men seem to be much more shy about meeting new people, very closed off to the creation of new friends, and very protective of their bodies and sex organs. Violate a guy and he pretty much reacts like a female. I know violating people isn’t right, but I always thought men were down for anything and most of them aren’t.
Your original definition is the way the press and advertisers portray us. Its all about selling junk.
Me? I’m 40, married and STILL shy. Always have been, always will be. Heck I didn’t even kiss a girl till I was 19. All that masochistic crap is for losers and insecure fools that need a mask and testosterone to hide behind.